I am still hurt by what this middle aged chick and her pathetic senior citizen sidekick at my church said.This chick named Rochelle tried to make me feel bad just because I don’t follow the crowd.She said that I won’t be successful just because I don’t always wear suits to church or fancy clothing.I am at church to get the word of God.I am not there for a fashion show.Its church,not a fashion runway.She said that God won’t bless me as much just because I don’t wear suits.She said I won’t get a husband just because I don’t go all out as far as clothing.
I just feel this drive to prove her wrong.She is basically saying that I will end up as a failure.
When someone tells you that you won’t achieve something, does that push you to try even harder?
I feel this need to prove her wrong.
I will earn my BA in early childhood education next year.I already earned my AA.
I will be a successful preschool teacher.
I will own my own environment friendly daycare center for ages 6 weeks to 3 years old down the line.
I will have a successful afterschool program for children ages 4 to 19 years old to keep them out of trouble and off the streets.
I will earn my Masters in early childhood education.
I will earn my PhD in education.
I will get a wonderful husband.
I will have a beautiful church wedding.
I will be a good wife to a decent man.
I will have those 4 children I want out of my body and I will adopt 7 children from different countries.
I will adopt a beautiful Chinese girl.
I will adopt a beautiful girl from India.
I will adopt a beautiful Japanese girl.
I will adopt a beautiful Vietnamese girl.
I will adopt a beautiful African girl.
I will adopt a beautiful Haitian girl.
I will adopt a beautiful Mexican girl.
I will have a beautiful big house in the future.
I will drive a beautiful limousine.(I have to have a big car for all those kids I want)
I will travel around the world.I have already traveled a little.
I will have a honeymoon in London,England.
I will have a vacation house in the south.
I will be a successful and famous author.I write poetry,short stories,and essays and I am working on a novel.
I will earn my massage therapy license/certification.
I will have my own massage therapy business and be successful at it.
I will be a successful freelance photographer.
I will be a successful freelance artist.I paint,draw,color,and make things.
I will learn how to knit,crochet,embroider,needlepoint,and quilt and then I can then sell the things I knit,crochet,embroider,etc.
I will start my own toiletry business and be successful.I am learning how to make soap.I will learn how to make lotion and perfume.
I will have a successful sweet shop/good eats shop from my house.
I will be a successful preschool teacher,artist,photographer,massage therapist,writer,cook,baker,and toiletry maker.
I just feel the need to prove her wrong.Then I can look at her and say "What now! Remember when you said I won’t be successful? Who’s laughing now!"
I have joined 9 dating websites since she said I won’t get a husband.I have so many hits.I guess I’m not as unappealing as she made me out to be.I have many hits and I am going on a date next week.
I will prove to her that I can get a man.I’m not going to die some lonely old lady wearing housedresses with a bunch of cats eating on neckbone sandwiches.
I will arrive at that church with a wonderful man on my arm and then I can say "Remember when you said I wouldn’t get a man in my life.Ha Who’s laughing now!"
Does it just drive you more to achieve your goals when people tell you you won’t achieve something?